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Showing posts with label Beeing strong. Show all posts
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Tuesday, November 15, 2011

2 What about the 999.999 of us???



Why do we discriminate in the 21 century??
If you are over 35 you won't  get a breast reconstruction from you're own tissue, and if you do get around that age you have to wait for 7 years?? Or pay a hundred grand  from you're own pocket.
And what about all those volunteers from Utøya who doesn't get any help? They risk their life with no other reward than jeopardizing their own life. The least the Norwegian government can take care of them??
Is health care only for the rick people? I thought we all regardless of finances deserved to get the best medical help available..

But no matte how you became ill, it is just as devastating to that person. You're life gets torn upside down, and its no more fun that it comes from you're body, malpractice, or external components.
But we all deserve the best treatment, but some are just lucky if they get treated at all.

The other thing. we need more stories of people who are struggling, and who has the guts to say that it is bloody hard, and I want to give up. Not all of those sunshine stories. They don't help, I feel more depressed after reading suck a story. I feel like a completely failure.I spineless woman. Why cant I fight like this? Why cant I find a ancient remedy that no one has thought of, and have the world strongest psyche??If you are sick, you need someone to tell you, you are not alone, it is normal to be depressed, not come to terms with you're condition after 2 months, and not to do everything you just to do. Its not always in the mind.
Not all of us, can just get up after a trauma. and we need proper guidance, not sunshine stories that happens to one in a million. what about the rest 999.999 of us?


Monday, January 3, 2011

2 Whatever it takes..

I began to think about the people around me. They are there for me no matter what!
But what about me? Its like I am aloud to not think about anything but myself, but I want to be there.
When my boy is having a ruff day, yes he can have that too. its not easy being with someone as myself. You try being with someone with as many diseases as me!

I cant even try to imagine how it is, seeing the person you love in so much pain. But in the future, I have decided that I am always going to say that it will be okay. When someone comes to me with a problem I am going to sit quiet, sometimes respond, but try to know when i should shut up and just listen.
And when I have the strength I am going to try and help them in any way I can.

So in the future when I know the people around me have been though enough, I will try to be there as much as I can. And sometimes doing nothing, means everything. I just have to get out my feelers, depress mood swings and just be there!